By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and have lived in and around Palo Alto since 1969. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background i... (More)
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Fine, Good, Okay
Nov 11, 2014 8:27 am
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Do you answer fine, good, or okay when asked how you are?
How are you? "Fine."
How are you? "Good."
How are you? "Okay."
Do you have any idea how your mate... More
Barbie, Women, Men and Body Image
Nov 7, 2014 1:55 pm
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I just want to start by saying body image is a huge topic and many articles and tomes have been written on the topic. I will just brush the surface here, with the... More
Trying New Behaviors: Fear & Excitement
Nov 3, 2014 1:32 pm
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Fear and excitement are on the same spectrum. Consider, in an evolutionary context, of hunters making the approach: fear and excitement. Think of current times,... More
Giants Win! Couples Can, Too
Oct 30, 2014 9:44 am
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Just think: The Giants were the NL wild card team. They had one chance to advance in the playoffs. And they won. They worked hard, they practiced, they used all... More
Oct 24, 2014 10:11 am
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To avoid mistakes and regrets, always consult your wife before engaging in a flirtation.- E.W. Howe
As Mira Kirshenbaum writes in her book, "When Good People... More